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My Real-Life Footloose Story

Janet Camilleri · 12/04/2017 ·

Did you know that the 1984 movie “Footloose” (starring Kevin Bacon and Lori Singer) is based on a true story?

is footloose a true story

Many people may find it hard to believe, but I’m not one of them.

You see, back in the early 80’s I was going to a church much like the oneΒ in Footloose.

It was an “independent Baptist” church (not to be confused with the regular Baptist type) – some might say, like the southern Baptist churches from the United States. In fact our pastor and his family came from the Deep South – also known as the bible belt – to the savages on the mission field in suburban Brisbane, Australia.

I say this in jest; in actual fact they were lovely people, if somewhat misguided.

Rock Music Forbidden

The independent Baptist church was extremely legalistic – that means, there were rules, and plenty of them.

Girls were not permitted to wear jeans, trousers, shorts, or skirts above the knee; boys were expected to have a short-back-n-sides.

is footloose a true story - my own real life footloose story
I’m in the middle – a modestly dressed 15 year old

Rock music, dancing and movies were all forbidden; I even went to a bonfire where youth group members were encouraged to burn their old records and cassettes of sinful, worldly music.

I used to love going roller skating – you’d think that would be a nice, wholesome, family activity (especially as I usually went with my Dad and siblings on access visits)?! But this had to remain my guilty secret. I knew the church would not approve – because there was rock music played (shock, horror) at the skating rink!

We were constantly lectured on the evils of modern music, dancing, and movies, and how they all sparked dangerous desires. As young women, we were urged to dress modestly so that we wouldn’t cause the boys to look lustfully upon us Β (although I have often thought a pair of jeans is much more modest than a full skirt, especially on a windy day!).

Footloose rules
Jeans would have been a better idea …

My boyfriend and I were not even supposed to hold hands!

Why All the Rules?

And all this, because the church was paranoid about sex outside of marriage – Β as if that was the worst possible sin in the whole entire world (personally I can think of plenty worse).

It was so impossibly strict, it was almost like they were setting us up for failure …

So I guess it shouldn’t have come as a surprise when the news broke that the pastor’s son had gotten his 16 year old girlfriend pregnant, hastily followed up with a shotgun wedding.

Not long after I left that particularly church, and its legalistic teachings behind. However I still remember feeling terribly risque, when I dared to dance at my senior formal later that year! Such a rebel I was πŸ˜‰ .

Senior Formal
Off to my senior formal where I actually danced!

So here we are, nearly thirty-five years later – and last week I saw an ad on TV for the original Footloose, which reminded me, I’ve never actually seen the movie.

Not sure that I need to, seeing as I have actually lived it …

Did you ever wonder, Is Footloose a true story? – or did you just assume it was 100% Hollywood?

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  1. Julia says

    13/04/2017 at 8:12 am

    Wow, I never knew churches could be so strict. I agree with you – a pair of jeans is totally more modest than a skirt anyway lol!!!

    • Janet Camilleri says

      13/04/2017 at 10:20 am

      Yes, especially when the young lady in question likes to do lots of cartwheels and jump on her trampoline πŸ˜‰

  2. Leanne says

    13/04/2017 at 10:55 am

    Tried to put a comment up a few times and it wouldn’t let me – here we go again……
    We go to a “normal” Baptist church, but there is an “Independent Baptist” church that meets nearby and I am always blown away by how formally they dress and how many rules there are – even down to how they describe themselves as ‘pre-milennialist, King James Bible only’ etc. Surely that’s not what freedom in Christ is all about? Glad you made it through remarkably unscathed – and Happy almost-Easter πŸ™‚

    • Janet Camilleri says

      13/04/2017 at 2:36 pm

      Oh yeah I forgot about that bit!!!!! They were very big on bible memorisation which has been a real gift to me over the years x

  3. Jan Wild says

    14/04/2017 at 4:39 pm

    Gosh, I was brought up in the Catholic Church which in comparison now seems very liberal! I have never seen Footloose, I must check it out. Happy Easter Janet

    • Janet Camilleri says

      19/04/2017 at 3:20 pm

      LOL yes, Catholics can get away with anything during the week as long as they go to confession …

  4. Nola says

    19/04/2017 at 12:59 pm

    So Janet, if your your life is Footloose, does that mean you always win when playing ‘Six Degrees of Kevin Bacon’? (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Six_Degrees_of_Kevin_Bacon)

    Great blog. Also good to see you holding down your skirt in the slippery slide pic. We all know what could happen otherwise πŸ™‚

    • Janet Camilleri says

      19/04/2017 at 3:22 pm

      I’d heard of Six Degrees of Kevin Bacon but didn’t realise it was an actual game πŸ˜‰ . Living here in the Redlands I find it’s very similar, everybody knows somebody who knows somebody … gotta be careful who you bad mouth. I imagine it’s much the same in Toowoomba?!

      • Nola says

        19/04/2017 at 4:25 pm

        Yes, you do have to be careful what you say, especially in church circles. Everyone knows someone who knows someone. But you’re pretty famous now, so maybe we should play ‘Six Degrees of Janet Camilleri πŸ˜‰

        • Janet Camilleri says

          19/04/2017 at 5:00 pm

          LOL I don’t think so … it’s just me sitting here with my cats for company!

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