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Bear’s Birthday Treat

Janet Camilleri · 20/07/2018 ·

Ever since we saw the movie “Wild” when it first came out, the hubster has dreamed of doing a similar hike.

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For those not familiar with the movie, it stars Reese Witherspoon as Cheryl Strayed, a young woman who sets out on an 1100 mile hike in a bid to get her life back on track (excuse the pun!).

Despite her complete lack of experience, the main character tackles the Pacific Crest Trail all the way from Southern California to the border of Oregon and Washington, on foot – a feat (oops I did it again!) which takes her 94 days.

So with the hubster’s 50th birthday looming, he announced that for his “birthday treat”, he wanted to go on a multi-day hike. With me. In the bush. Camping. In the middle of winter.

I’m sure you can guess what happened next.

hiking and camping

I freaked out!

While the idea of going on a hike did have some appeal for me, the roughing it overnight, definitely didn’t. I’m a delicate little petal and would only consent if there was the prospect of a comfy bed, hot shower and flushing toilet at the end of each day.

The Gold Coast Hinterland Great Walk

So we negotiated a compromise: the Gold Coast Hinterland Great Walk.

walking track

My Bear’s Birthday Treat will start with a night at O’Reilly’s Rainforest Retreat, before setting out the next morning to hike 21 kilometres to Binna Burra. After a 2 night stay, we’ll head back to O’Reilly’s on foot once again (we thought it might be wise to have a bit of a break in the middle).

We’re nervous, but excited! I walk 4 to 5 kilometres most mornings, which I’m hoping has helped to prepare me. Plus, my Bear and I have done a couple of extended walks (over 10km) on recent weekends, as a bit of a “shake down” to see how we would fare, and to help us sort out what essentials need to be in our backpacks.

By the time this post goes live, we will have completed the first day of our hike …

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The Difference Between Men and Women

We couldn’t help having a bit of a giggle though, over the stark contrast of our chosen 50th birthday treats – just another example of how men and women see things differently.

As a fairly typical woman, my 50th birthday was a time when I want to feel pampered and special. So I chose a holiday at a 5 star resort in Bali to celebrate – wining and dining, relaxing by the pool or at the beach, massages every day … pure bliss!

But it seems that for a man about to turn 50, what they really want is to prove they’ve “still got it” – that they’re young, fit and strong. Instead of lazing in luxury, this is a time when they seek out a challenge – which is why for my Bear’s Brithday treat, we’re going hiking.

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No doubt I’ll be sharing just how it went, in due course …

Would you go hiking with your hubby for his 50th birthday treat or am I completely mad?!



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  1. Tracy says

    21/07/2018 at 11:21 am

    Happy birthday Lawrence!
    I like hiking, but camping … definitely not! Lol

  2. Liz says

    21/07/2018 at 1:56 pm

    Yes I would go hiking with my dear hubby! I don’t think you are mad : )
    Your compromise for accommodation sounds great too : ) I’m sure you’ll both enjoy it.

  3. Denyse Whelan says

    21/07/2018 at 9:35 pm

    Wow! Hope all is going well. I applaud your adventurous spirit Janet! I can’t even remember what we did for our 50th. I know we each got personalised number plates with the Sydney Olympics as part of the NSW plate. Still on our cars. Next year we are both 70 and not considering anything other than gratitude to have made it! Denyse x

  4. Kez @ Awesomely Unprepared says

    22/07/2018 at 9:09 am

    Haha I think I would definitely do it (and I think my husband would like this idea)! I like your compromise! I would just be scared he’d want to do a cycling trip though…I am not sure about that one. Might have to just cheer him on and send him off on that one – or meet him at a lovely resort along the way haha.

  5. Bec Senyard says

    25/07/2018 at 10:16 am

    I can’t wait to read how this went! I’ve never been to O’Reillys but it’s on my bucket list.

  6. Johanna Castro says

    25/07/2018 at 9:05 pm

    Hope you enjoy it. We did some of the walks around Binna Burra back in 2001 and one long one, but not sure if it was that one. Hope you enjoyed 🙂

  7. Leanne | www.crestingthehill.com.au says

    04/08/2018 at 7:09 pm

    Good on you for going along for the ride (hike!) My husband loves hiking, but (fortunately for me) he enjoys it as a time of quiet reflection. He occasionally takes himself off for a few days hike along the Bibblumun Track and stays in shelters or in his tent along the way (long drop toilet at the shelter and no showers!) I shudder at the thought and am immensely relieved that my part of the deal is drop off and pick up. Hope you enjoy your hike – and the lovely accommodation at the halfway mark 🙂

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