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Middle Aged Mama’s Guide to Looking Cool

Janet Camilleri · 10/02/2015 ·

My mate Rachel at Redcliffe Style shared her tips on how to give the illusion of cool recently, so I thought I’d give it a try.

Here is a pic of me doing my very best to look cool:

cool

Not quite sure if I’ve managed to pull it off … 😉

But, the experience did teach me a couple of things. In addition to Rachel’s tips, if you really want to look cool I would also recommend:

  1. Don’t look at the camera;
  2. And, add a filter for that moody, cool look.

Here’s me not doing so well at looking cool:

almost a smile
I see a smile starting to break through – NOT cool!

 

whatchu talking 'bout Willis?!
Whatchu talking ’bout Willis?!

 

I’m not convinced I’m cut out for cool after all. I think I look younger in my normal smiley pictures, so maybe I’ll just stick with that …

 

Too smiley to be cool
Too smiley to be cool – and I’m okay with that 😉

 

So what’s your best look – cool or smiley, or something else entirely?!

Linking up with Essentially Jess for IBOT.

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  1. Kathy Marris says

    10/02/2015 at 7:32 am

    Ha ha! Very funny Janet. I think I look the coolest when I am smiling because it seems to iron out all the wrinkles in my face! You can’t beat a lovely smile. 🙂

  2. Raych aka Mystery Case says

    10/02/2015 at 8:27 am

    LOL love your style. I completely suck when it comes to photos of myself. I think I have the side look down pat though, given I’m trying to hide the fact that one side of my face has dropped.

  3. Rachel @ Redcliffe Style says

    10/02/2015 at 2:06 pm

    Haha, that is so funny. Love it! Rachel xx

  4. Mandy, Barbie Bieber and Beyond says

    10/02/2015 at 2:47 pm

    Oh I think you look very cool!! I hate having photos taken of myself, I always look 20 kilos heavier!

  5. KezUnprepared says

    10/02/2015 at 3:45 pm

    I think we all look the coolest when we’re just being us 🙂
    I like the photos of me where I’m just happy in a moment. The candid stuff.

  6. Pinky Poinker says

    10/02/2015 at 4:57 pm

    Everyone looks cooler when they smile. Some of those cat walk models look too silly for words when they get those dopey looks on their faces.

  7. Malinda @mybrownpaperpackages says

    10/02/2015 at 7:23 pm

    Pfft – cool – who needs that. Genuine smile wins me over every time

  8. Renee Wilson says

    10/02/2015 at 8:33 pm

    Lol, Janet! You do look very cool in that second pic 🙂 I couldn’t look cool if I tried. When my husband was taking photos for my should it stay or should it go series he told me to look sexy lol. Nup, can’t pull that one of either 🙂 #teamIBOT

  9. EssentiallyJess says

    10/02/2015 at 8:41 pm

    Ha ha!! I don’t do cool well at all! I like smiley Janet too. She looks like fun 🙂

  10. Ingrid @ Fabulous and Fun Life says

    10/02/2015 at 8:43 pm

    Thanks for the laugh! You do look cool especially in the first photo but I think I prefer your normal, friendly, smiley photos best 🙂

  11. Emily says

    10/02/2015 at 9:04 pm

    Love the smile! Instead of cool, go for so totally smokin’ hot right now. x

  12. stephanie@stephsjoy says

    10/02/2015 at 11:10 pm

    Agree with you. Stick to your smiley smile! x

  13. Denise says

    11/02/2015 at 1:19 am

    My friends and I tested this out a while back, and we liked smiling at the camera with sunglasses on – they cover the wrinkles!

  14. Tegan says

    11/02/2015 at 9:59 pm

    Your smiley pictures are definitely more you! Most of my profile pictures are a tiny bit of a smile. I feel self conscious smiling (crazy how the brain works sometimes!) and so I don’t tend to break out in a big grin in photos.

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