• Skip to primary navigation
  • Skip to main content
  • Skip to primary sidebar
  • Skip to footer

Middle Aged Mama

Blogging about my Midlife Adventures

  • About
  • New? Start Here!
  • What’s Middle Age?!
  • Work With Me
  • As Seen In
  • Workshops
  • Fine Print
  • Contact
  • Show Search
Hide Search

What Does Comfort Food Mean to You?

Janet Camilleri · 10/08/2018 ·

This is what comfort food looks like to me:

comfort food

Steak and chips and tinned beans.

It’s not exactly gourmet, although we don’t have it all that often because steak can be expensive. Perhaps the fact that it’s a little bit “special” helps to elevate it to the status of comfort food for me?

Experts would probably say that I’m drawn to it because it’s packed with fatty acids.

Whatever. Luckily it’s quick and easy to prepare, and not too bad for the waistline – especially if the chips are cooked in an air fryer.

Chances are, your idea of comfort food is very different to mine; but I’ll bet there are some things they have in common.

What is Comfort Food Anyway?!

Comfort food tastes like home, like somebody loves you. It gives you a feeling of safety, warmth and security, as it usually stems from childhood and is something your mum or grandma used to make (and let’s be honest, nobody – not even you – makes it quite as well as they did!). Alas, my grandma’s awesome jam tart is now just a memory – I never did get the recipe 🙁 .

Why do we turn to comfort food? Maybe because it’s like a warm hug when we are sick or injured, tired or stressed, or “all peopled out”. It is the joy of the familiar, giving us stability in times of crisis, grief and heartache. If we are really lucky once we hit adulthood, somebody makes it (whatever it may be) for us, to take care of us.

Many people think of chicken noodle soup as comfort food; it’s the perfect panacea when we are feeling unwell.

And is there anything that can’t be made better with a hot cup of tea?! The Brits were on to something with that one! (Although if you want to get technical, tea is a drink, not a food. Meh, details.)

tea cup

Comfort food probably varies too, depending on where you grew up.

For Americans, it might be mac and cheese, or hot apple pie. I’m only guessing, but would it be fried rice for the Chinese, croissants for the French, pasta for the Italian?

Steak and chips and beans might be the first thing that comes to my mind as far as comfort food goes, but there are others that I would definitely add to my list:

  • soft boiled eggs and toast fingers (this is definitely comfort food for the hubster, it’s his “go-to” whenever one of us is feeling blue);
  • roast chicken;
  • chocolate pudding (now that’s real winter comfort food!);
  • porcupine meatballs and mashed potato;
  • cereal (yes, even for dinner sometimes when I really can’t be bothered!).

Is Chocolate a Comfort Food?

I thought about adding chocolate to my list but it just didn’t feel right. Although I am addicted to love chocolate – especially dark chocolate, I can (and do!) eat it anytime. It’s not something I reserve for when I need comfort.

Besides, I think of comfort food as a meal, rather than a snack – though it might be different for you …

comfort food
I’m curious to know what comfort food would top your list?



Filed Under: Health & Wellbeing, Memories

Reader Interactions

Comments

  1. Julia says

    10/08/2018 at 9:37 am

    Aw I love this post. Here’s my list:
    – your satay chicken;
    – your spaghetti;
    – SBEATF;
    – chocolate pudding; and
    – Cal’s chorizo pasta.
    <3

    • Janet Camilleri says

      11/08/2018 at 11:03 am

      Satay chicken hey? I will have to remember that!!!

  2. Sammie @ The Annoyed Thyroid says

    12/08/2018 at 7:09 am

    I think my list of comfort food would be quite long – definitely my Auntie Sandra’s Chicken Soup (with value added matzo balls,) roast dinners, any kind of pie (especially with gravy) and old fashioned puddings, like jam sponge, treacle tart of my nana’s bread pudding. And yes, although a cup of tea isn’t a meal, there is not much that a cup of tea can’t fix! Love your list too!

    • Janet Camilleri says

      16/08/2018 at 3:45 pm

      Thanks Sammie, there are some folk who don’t drink tea – how do they survive?!

  3. Johanna Castro says

    16/08/2018 at 3:05 am

    This post had me feeling immediately hungry! For me comfort food is cheese on toast with worcester sauce, or baked beans on toast, or macaroni cheese (for starters!).

    • Janet Camilleri says

      16/08/2018 at 3:46 pm

      Oops sorry about that Jo! Cheese on toast is definitely a comfort food, but I’ve never heard of eating it with worcester sauce, think I might give that a miss 😉

  4. Nat says

    21/08/2018 at 6:34 pm

    Comfort food for me has to be something rich and saucy- traditional or eggplant lasagna (believe it or not I ate THE BEST ever lasagna in a 5-star hotel in China of all places!) or my mum’s stuffed capsicum. In fact, anything my mum cooks- takes me back to my childhood!

    • Janet Camilleri says

      22/08/2018 at 6:40 pm

      LOL Nat that reminds me the WORST lasagne I ever had was in Pisa, Italy – no better than a frozen one. Most disappointing and yuk!

Primary Sidebar

Meet the Middle Aged Mama

Janet Camilleri is an Australian bloggerHi - I'm Janet Camilleri aka the Middle Aged Mama; crazy cat lady, award-winning business woman, and mother of two grown children. I might be a middle aged woman, but that doesn't mean I've lost all interest in looking stylish! I love chocolate, chick lit, cruising holidays and the husbear - and not necessarily in that order wink. I live in Brisbane, Australia, and I'm learning how to fashion a new life now that we have an empty nest - did somebody say "travel"?!

Middle Aged Mama logo

Ads & Affiliates




Topics

  • Blogging, Reading & Writing
  • Fashion & Beauty
  • Health & Wellbeing
  • Home & Garden
  • Leisure
  • Memories
  • Middle Age
  • Rants & Ramblings
  • Relationships & Parenting
  • Travel
  • Work & Finances

Follow My Adventures On:

Facebookpinterestrssinstagram

Footer

Archives

where you can find me

How to dress over 40

Bloggernity

Blog Directory

Search Middle Aged Mama

© 2025 Janet Camilleri / Middle Aged Mama