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When did you first become Fashion Aware?

Janet Camilleri · 10/10/2014 ·

As a kid, I didn’t care too much about clothes – apart from some notable exceptions. As long as my clothes weren’t scratchy or prickly, I didn’t really care!

It’s just as well in a way – being one of 4 kids with a single mum on a pension, we really couldn’t afford the latest fashion anyways.

Fashion Aware
I would have loved to have owned this outfit, when I first became fashion aware!

It was only after I started high school that I truly started to become fashion aware.

On a couple of different occasions in Year 8, I missed the mark fashion-wise and was cut to the quick by comments from my peers.

Over the summer of Year 7 into Year 8, short board shorts were all the rage, for boys and girls. I eventually got a pair of pink ones with navy blue piping and decided to wear them to the school fete, where I learned a hard lesson about dressing appropriately for the occasion. One “friend” turned her nose up at what I was wearing – what would have been okay at the beach was apparently not what I should have worn to a school function (it was probably freezing cold too, but let’s face it when you’re young you have to “look” the part and to heck with the weather!)

Another day I was at the shops with my family (how embarrassment!) and I bumped into another girl, who looked me up and down before making some comment about “blue and green really don’t match”!

It was a bit of a rude awakening. From then on I started to save my meager pocket money to supplement my wardrobe, or asked for clothes for Christmas and birthdays. As a result I usually managed to look okay in Summer – as I had a January birthday – but Winter was much harder!

Fashion Conscious - my style circa 1980

This photo shows my first ever fashion purchase – a tartan skirt. Very cool, back in 1980. I bought a grey tab shirt and a grey boucle sweater at the same time, and purchased some black espadrilles too – I felt like it and a bit when I wore them! Sadly, there’s no photo of the complete ensemble which was actually quite tasteful (even for that era). Because I was “at home” that day, I wore it with a t-shirt – yellow, never my best colour. But it “sort of” matched the mustard stripe in the tartan – yes, I was obsessively matchy-matchy even right back then. Oh, and it seems I’ve always been fond of kitties 😉 .

Now it’s your turn – when did you first become fashion aware? And what was the first fashion item you ever bought?!

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  1. Raych aka Mystery Case says

    10/10/2014 at 8:15 am

    I think it was high school and thanks to obnoxious up themselves girls for me too.

    • Janet Camilleri says

      11/10/2014 at 5:44 pm

      Yeah, what is it with catty girls at high school? Just coz their parents were rich and mine wasn’t!

  2. Raych aka Mystery Case says

    10/10/2014 at 8:16 am

    I have to keep reminding myself to start using the new blog address when I comment. Where’s a post it note when I need it?

    • Janet Camilleri says

      11/10/2014 at 5:44 pm

      I know what you mean – that tripped me up for months when I changed my blog’s name!!!!

  3. Lurg says

    10/10/2014 at 12:13 pm

    I used to quite like ‘nice clothes’ but never a dedicated follower of fashion.

    • Janet Camilleri says

      11/10/2014 at 5:45 pm

      Lurg! Welcome!!!! And on your birthday too!!! xxx

  4. coco says

    11/10/2014 at 1:32 am

    I started to become fashion conscious since starting high school. Unfortunately I’ve been listening to mom’s advise. It was only until when I graduated from uni I started to read Cleo and Cosmos I started to pick up fashion trend and start not to look ridiculous. It was then my friends started to tell me that I had ‘unusual’ fashion sense previously. Doh, why no one ever told me?
    I can’t even remember what was the first fashion item I bought! Getting old…

    • Janet Camilleri says

      11/10/2014 at 5:45 pm

      Well, you’re making up for lost time now 🙂

  5. KathyMarris says

    11/10/2014 at 3:40 pm

    I adored fashion from an early age and I used to sew my own outfits when I was a teenager. When I got my first job at 17 I think I just about blew my entire weekly wage on fashion. I had and still do have an extensive collection of clothing and shoes. Sad thing is I don’t have as many occasions to wear all this clothing these days!

    • Janet Camilleri says

      11/10/2014 at 5:46 pm

      Kathy, I would have been super jealous of you, I *wished* I could sew but failed home ec – I used to swear that as soon as I looked at our sewing machine it would snarl up …

  6. Rae Hilhorst says

    11/10/2014 at 3:44 pm

    I have always loved dressing up, to this day I find it hard to do casual. I now possess a pair of jeans from Sportscraft, stretchy ones that are really comfortable. So things are on the up x

    • Janet Camilleri says

      11/10/2014 at 5:46 pm

      Actually Rae, I was much the same and didn’t “do” jeans for years either!

  7. Pinky Poinker says

    13/10/2014 at 4:22 pm

    Well we would have been good mates because I had no clothes when I was a kid. My mother just didn’t buy us much. It’s had an effect on me now because I still don’t have anywhere near as many clothes as my friends and I’m a cheapskate. We got a new outfit for the show and maybe on our birthdays. I remember friends coming over, looking in my wardrobe and asking where all my clothes were. I’d lie and say they were in the washing. Oh well, I suppose it didn’t kill me.

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