This time last week, I whisked the hubster away for a romantic weekend in a cabin on the Sunshine Coast hinterland, in honour of his birthday.
It was so peaceful and private; we loved the views, the cows, the spa, the fireplace. We went for a walk to a nearby creek and did a spot of fishing – I even caught a catfish (which we promptly threw back).
We watched a DVD, cooked up a barbeque, made up our own cheese platter and spent lots of time just sitting on the verandah, admiring the view. My phone had no signal (although the hubster’s – on a different network – did!), so I was forced into digital detox – not a bad thing when it’s supposed to be a romantic escape 😉 !
Hubster reckons it was the best birthday ever; we both had a fabulous time.
Heading off on weekend getaways like this is not something we do terribly often. But it got me to wondering: WHY are weekend getaways so great? Why is it so much more relaxing and refreshing, than just spending a quiet weekend at home?
Why are Weekend Getaways so Great?!
Finally I realised the answer: No Distractions.
When you spend the weekend away, you don’t have to worry about the washing, or the lawn that needs mowing, or the 1001 other household tasks awaiting attention.
There are no kids interrupting, no visitors, no phone ringing with people wanting favours (which seems to be the only reason our home phone ever rings!).
There is nothing to do except whatever you want – which is to relax and enjoy each other’s company.
It’s kinda cute that after 25 years of marriage, we still enjoy each and even yearn for each other’s company.
I must admit, the timing was perfect too. The hubster finishes his job today, after 20 years. Even though he’s taken a voluntary redundancy, and starts a temporary position on Monday, it has been quite a stressful time. So we *really* needed the break!
How often do you manage weekend getaways?
the phone only rings when they want something – so, i’m not the only one in that situation !
LOL I people wonder why I have a bit of a phone phobia 😉
So great to get away! I am so excited to get away later this year for our wedding anniversary. As long as we can line up babysitting, nothing’s gonna stop us! I want all the cheese and wine and spa time! 🙂
What a great plan! Here’s hoping your babysitting can be worked out 🙂
We used to take them regularly but haven’t for ages. I agree, they’re very restorative. New tastes, smells and scenery can be very refreshing!
Pinky, we don’t do it often because of the expense … which is why it’s good to attach it to a “special” occasion where possible, like a birthday or anniversary 🙂